I knew him only briefly
during his final years, meeting him by one of those chance-of-fate encounters that
bring all people together. We were never
really properly introduced. He just stuck
his face in mine one day, on an early Tuesday morning when I was resting in my
bed, contemplating the daylight creeping across the wall, and the world outside
and my own place in it. He had let
himself in, evidently, like he owned the place, and had made his way up the
stairs to my bedroom and, as I lay there resting and contemplating. He suddenly burst into the room and walked
over to my bed and leaned over my startled body, and put his face into
mine. He made these strange, and
strangely aggressive, gargling noises.
Something like a catch in the throat,enunciated with his thick burbling lips.
Ah-bubbbb. Ah-bubbbb.
Then, just like that, he growled and moved on. And out of the blue, we came to
make each other’s alarming acquaintance.
I didn’t have any say in the matter.
The next day he did the same
thing. And the next, he did the
same. This went on for a time, this
bursting in and leaning over and this weird aggressive gargling. Each time he’d end with a growl. Each time he’d stay only a moment. And then it would end as abruptly as it had
come on. He’d disappear quickly, as
quickly as he’d appeared, shaking the dust off his boots as he walked down the
stairs.
This odd how-do-you-do continued
to occur on almost a daily basis for probably a year or more. It happened for so long, in fact, that it
eventually became of little notice to me.
And then, when he noticed that I’d stopped being impressed, he began,
through a series of interactions that grew increasingly sophisticated, to
sharpen his approach. He would sometimes
push his face near my own as if he was tempting me to touch it. I sometimes gave in to the temptation and
reached out a tentative hand to push at his gnarly whiskers. He’d wait until my fingers had almost reached
their mark, and then he’d turn his head and snap at them, his bared teeth clicking
in a snarling grimace, noise burbling up from his throat, forcing me to pull
back in fear.
He wouldn’t leave me
alone. It came to a point, over a course
of days, weeks, months, years, that, at any moment I might, for example, find
the man rushing from around the corner
shouting epithets and running straight at me in a brazen attempt to pick me up
and throw me over his shoulder. Or else,
I would be walking through a room somewhere, anywhere really, and I’d look up
and see him sitting in a chair in the corner.
He’d be sitting there patting his knee with a flyswatter, a glass of
bourbon on the table beside him, telling me to come over and take a seat beside
him. He spoke with a strange, measured
lowness, slightly whistling through his teeth.
He was completely unaware that I
was terrified by his gruffness. Or he
knew and didn’t care. He was clearly unlike the others in the room. He was, indeed, it seemed – it still seems – an
Odd Fellow.
Actually, if truth be told, the
oddest thing was that I found myself over time to be drawn to this man. It was as if, even in those early encounters,
when I looked in his face, when I reached out my hand, it was as much from a
strange fascination as it was from a startling fear. When I saw in his face the
structure and the story of the man, the creases in his eyes, his life’s experience,
his wrinkling skin pulled tight around his sharp cheekbones, I found both the nature
and nurture of humanity, or the lack thereof, played out in in his lanky
frame. It was as if, when I looked in
his face, I saw a version of my own story, like a foreshadowing of things to
come. I recognized, without being able to put words to it, a family resemblance
and, more, a map of the fearsome world.
The deep-cut fissures in his once smooth skin told of rivers cut into
the rock, of hardscrabble search for meaning.
His eyes were black as oil, and as suggestive of buried value. Something stirred in my blood when I saw
him. As if I felt some ancient tug in
his direction, drawn along by an odd warming of the blood. This response was, as I have said, beyond my
reckoning. It ran fluid like rivers,
deep like oil, and warm like the blood in my veins. And the thick viscous pull of this man ran like
blood, like oil, through my heart. I
came over time to warm to this man not just because he was strangely familiar
but because he was angrily other.
Perhaps it was his
scrawny-bone frame, or the fact that he hunched over slightly at the waist in a
way that made him look somehow tough and mischievous and vulnerable, all at the
same time. I can’t really say, even now,
what it was, but whatever the attraction, I came to be drawn ever more closely
into his sphere. He would sit with his
flyswatter and curse at the TV, his web of arms catching me up as I ran past
his chair – always slowing just a little, just a little, as I rushed by, cutting wide swath circles to make sure I didn't bump his table and spill his drink and block his view. It was a game we played, we two,
as he sipped on his bourbon and I dashed through the house. He’d sit and curse as if I didn’t exist, and
I’d dash around the corner with my sparkling eyes, and he’d slowly reach down
with his glass, pressing his hand upon the table waiting motionless until I, like a fly to his swatter, came to rest within his reach. And just when I thought I had made it past his
reach he’d snap out his arm in a flash of light and catch me by an ankle, turning
me head over heels in a pile on the floor at his feet.
Then I’d reach up and stroke those scraggly whiskers and I'd climb up in his
lap and I’d be caught in his web, where I’d
sit with him and listen to his wild stories and watch his over-animated
expressions. I’d hold my sides and
laugh.
It was then that the
relationship transformed into something
miraculous. When I say
“miraculous” I know the weight that is implied.
I know it and I intend it. I mean
to say that the relationship was life-changing.
It was the kind of relationship that comes along only rarely, perhaps once
or twice in a lifetime. We two, this old
man and I, came to know and to love each other, despite ourselves. He was the source and I was the echo. And yet through our prickly interactions, I
became a source of my own. He took on
something like a second youth when in my presence and I benefited from the lift
of colorful lies that he told with the wit of deep experience. He became a wellspring of youthful vigor, I opened
up to an ancient priming knowledge. I drew
from his well of wishful, whimsical memories and he from my unabashed innocence.
Perhaps it was his withered body, its increasing frailty suggesting a kind of
weakness, or a need where none had existed before. Or perhaps it was the fact that he was small
for a man, hunched at the waist to exaggerate the effect. But somehow we came
to see eye to eye. He was closer in height
to my own small frame than other adults, and there was a comfort in his
proximity, his frailty, his willingness to play the clown to cover over any weakness. He was Shakespeare’s second childhood, having
nothing but time left to lose. I was Shakespeare’s morning-faced school-boy,
lost in the wilderness of endless fantasy.
We became lost, we two, in mere oblivion. Like conspirators, I became protective of him, and he of me.
... to be continued
... to be continued
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